RevSteve,
In your situation your are chasing structure borne and impact noise from the receiving side and this will make it more difficult to get results. You will need to address the floor,walls and ceiling to get a reduction of remitted impact noise. I would suggest doing a second layer of drywall 5/8" or thicker and a 3 tube per 4'x8' sheet drywall of Green Glue for the walls ceiling.
http://www.soundproofing.org/ggpages.htm And for your floor I would use MLV w/ Closed cell foam underlayment, wall to wall.
http://www.soundproofing.org/infopages/flooring.htmThis will dampen the walls and ceiling and give you a sound and impact barrier over your floor.
Your other option would be decoupling the walls and ceiling from the structure, which would entail taking down all current drywall and floating walls and ceiling on sound clips and channel.